by Elijah Mutabuza
Moving on from an ex forever, what am I saying there?
Well, in this section we are going to be discussing exactly what you can do to move on with your life leaving no sign of your ex boyfriend. I wanted to create this section for women who literally want nothing to do with their exes anymore. Either they were so hurt by him that they don’t even want to think of him anymore or they feel no need to be friends with him every again. And this is how you should do it..,
Remind yourself why it ended always
Instead of thinking about how great your relationship was, think back to all of the bad moments you shared, and remember all the reasons why the relationship didn’t work. Remember the fights, the incompatibility, or any of the reasons why your relationship ended. Though you may miss him, keep telling yourself why it wasn’t meant to be.
- Though you shouldn’t obsess over all of the bad times you had, you can conjure a bad moment any time you catch yourself having warm and fuzzy feelings about your ex.
Don’t think about the great times you had
You can reminisce about these once you’ve moved away from everything else that reminds you of him; eventually, they will be fond memories, but right now they’re just going to make you feel sad and lost. Try to avoid daydreaming or recounting some of the amazing days you spent together. You may be able to appreciate those special moments in the future, once you’ve gained some perspective, but not now.
Don’t blame yourself.
It’s natural to reflect on the relationship and the things that went wrong, but don’t waste your time trying to blame yourself for what happened. Even if you feel that you did something or acted in a way that made your ex want to end the relationship, don’t think about how you could have acted different. Accept that it’s over and that there’s nothing you can do to turn back time. Letting go of your regret is a big step towards forgetting your ex. If you’re obsessing over what could have been or what should have happened instead, you’ll be too wrapped up in the past to think about the future.
Give yourself time to grieve
It’s okay to make time for a mourning period, don’t think that you need to rush back into all of your usual activities, immediately hang out with your friends, and do exactly what you always did right after your break-up. If you don’t make time to be alone or with a close friend, to cry, and to reflect on everything that happened,
- It’s natural to be sad and mopey for a while.
- Don’t be in denial about how much you’ve been hurt.
- If you want to be left alone for a little while, let your friends and family know so they can give you space. Just don’t be left alone for too long or you may indulge in your sad feelings.
There you go my ladies!!
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