As men we know that foreplay plays a very important role in s3x and often enough we make it our mission to be great at it. But, what if you wanted to spice things up? What if you want to be the one that get’s him burning with desire?
Like women, men are also fairly complicated s#xual beings and we also enjoy our share of fun. Most women believe that it’s enough for a man to “stick it in†and that’s really all they want from s#x. That’s also true if your man is in his first years of s#x (or under 22) but after a while they want and expect things to be at a different level.
1. An early taste of the action
S#x doesn’t necessarily have to start in the bedroom…it can start anywhere you want it to. I’m not talking about nakedness in public places but giving him that little taste of the action can get him in a fiery mood early on. For example, if you’re out at a romantic dinner, have a passionate look at his tights then move onto his eyes and give him the “I want you now!†look. To make it even better, you can kiss him passionately on the cab ride home.
2. Strip
Ah yes, this is probably a man’s favorite dream. Unlike women, men are stimulated by what they see; romance and stories do nothing for him. So, there’s nothing like a good old strip tease to get him in the proper mood. Make sure you do it slow, sensual and take your clothes off bit by bit.
3. Making out
As with you, kissing passionately get’s a guy going. I don’t know what it is but for most guys, when they feel some tongue action things just start going crazy. In a way, our brains directly associate making out (tongue kissing) with sex, they go hand and hand. It’s really easy to get a guy going this way. Just start off with gentle little kisses, moving on to the full make out sessions while your hands explore his manly body. Also, don’t forget to use your tongue on the ears and neck. Think of it this way, if you like it, he likes it – so get moving!
4. Take charge
As previously mentioned, one of the biggest questions guys have about this issue is “Why isn’t their partner starting sex?†You see, men get tired of being men sometimes and that’s why they want you to take charge. Simply get on top of him and show him that you’re the boss. Rip his clothes off and tell him what to do, he’ll love you for it.
5. Massage
Again, this is another thing most women overlook. If you like to be massaged by your guy, you’d think he wouldn’t want the same treatment? Of course he does. Give him a full blown sensual massage and he’ll want you more than he ever has. Also, if you’ve got time, make sure you use oils, candles, some soft music, basically the whole lot.
6.Talk dirty
Although this may come natural to some women, the majority struggle with it. To make it easy for you, do a search online for some standard lines and then say them when the time is right (during s#x…that is). Example: “Do you like that baby?â€, “That feels soo goodâ€. You can always add in a few moans and “yesâ€-es and you’re good to go. Before you know it you’ll be a master at dirty talking and you’re guy is going to be begging you for s#x.
7. Mirror in the bedroom
This is not so much a foreplay move but if you can get hold of a mirror and place it in the bedroom, somewhere where the guy can see himself whilst in the bed…it’s going to do you wonders. I don’t know what sort of narcissistic side this appeals to but we as men love watching ourselves in the mirror, especially when we have our special someone naked, next to us.
8. The No Hands Game
This is a fantastic and fun game to play in the bedroom. Ask your guy to do anything he wants to you but he can’t use his hands. Believe me, the added challenge will make it exciting and just so much more fun
9.Use a blindfold
Although men are visual creatures, the fact of NOT KNOWING what’s going to happen drives us crazy. So, if you want to turn your guy on, blindfold him then play with his senses. Run your hands all over him, let him feel your warm breath over him, the silk of your lingerie and when he least expects it, go down on him then, stop abruptly and go back to gently teasing him. To add some extra flavor, tie his hands so he can’t control anything that’s going on. The suspense of your next move will kill him (in a good way).
