by Elijah Mutabuza Ssalongo
If you’re worried that the sparks are dying down, or that your girlfriend is just not feeling it anymore, then you’ve got to work harder to win her over and to keep her by your side. If your relationship just isn’t meant to be, then it’s one thing, but if you really love your girlfriend and can’t imagine life without her, then you have to work on making her feel loved, being a more thoughtful and attentive boyfriend, and on keeping your flame alive. If you want to know how to get your girlfriend to love you more, see Step 1 to get started.
- You can compliment an impressive aspect of her personality. You can say something like, “It’s really awesome that you can strike up a conversation with almost anyone. How do you do that?” Or, “You’re such a hard worker. I wish I could study for as long as you could.”
- You should pay attention to her and notice when she’s wearing something new or when she got a new haircut. Say, “I love that new sweater on you. It really brings out your eyes,” and she’ll be impressed that you’re paying attention.
Do favors for her. Another way to make your girlfriend feel special and to win her over is to do some favors for her to show her you care. This could mean bringing her lunch when she’s had a busy day, giving her a ride when she needs it, or helping her clean up her place after a party. Just taking the time to make her life a little easier will make her appreciate you more. Of course, you don’t want to be her puppy dog and make her think she can take advantage of you, but you should help her out when you can, provided she does the same for you.She may protest when you ask her if she needs help, but if you see that she really does need some help from you, you should help her out as much as you can.Be supportive of her goals and interests. If you want to make your girlfriend feel special, then you can’t just treat her like arm candy. You have to care about the things she cares about and want her to succeed. If she’s really into soccer, you should go to her games when you can. If she’s trying to find a new job, you can help her by setting up a mock interview. Let her see that you want her to do well and care about the things that matter to her, and she’ll be touched by how thoughtful you are.
If she’s upset, you should be there to comfort her and to talk about it when she’s ready to talk. Don’t get frustrated with her when she’s not in a good mood because she’s had a personal disappointment.Cheer her on if she has a big day coming up. Wish her luck and tell her you’ll be thinking of her.
So my boys there you are good to go
